Remember when people had manners? Back then, etiquette was not just for stuffy dinner parties; it was about not annoying everyone around you. Somewhere between texting at the table and ghosting on plans, we lost sight of simple etiquette.
Here are 18 forgotten etiquette rules that deserve a serious comeback.
RSVP Like You Mean It
Back in the day, people used to respect the RSVP. Today? It’s like pulling teeth to get a straight answer. If somebody invites you to something, let them know: yes or no! Ghosting invites is not only rude but think of the hosts who must plan food and seating arrangements without knowing if you’re coming.
Writing Thank-You Letters
Remember when people used to write thank-you notes? Not some half-hearted text or emoji-ridden DM, but ACTUAL cards. Taking the time to jot down a heartfelt “thanks” shows you care—and no, an Amazon gift receipt doesn’t count.
Saying “Please” and “Thank You”
When did basic manners become optional? A simple “please” and “thank you” go a long way in turning around a grumpy barista’s day or, you know, keeping your coworker from secretly hating you. These little phrases cost a summation of absolutely nothing and show you are not a complete savage.
Don’t Arrive Empty-Handed
When visiting someone’s home, bring something: flowers, wine, dessert, or even a pack of crisps! It is the little things that show your appreciation. Rolling up empty-handed feels like you’re taking their hospitality for granted.
Introduce Yourself—and Others
Awkward silences happen when people forget to introduce themselves or others. A simple “Hey, this is James” can save the day. Don’t leave your friends or colleagues standing there like invisible props.
Put Your Phone Away at the Table
No one likes competing with your Instagram feed when dinner is on the table. When on the table, be concerned about those who are facing you, not likes and texts that can wait – they will still be there, trust us.
Be on Time
Fashionably late isn’t fashionable; it’s inconsiderate. Being on time shows respect for other people’s schedules. If you’re always running late, maybe it’s time to change your priorities or set an alarm.
Chew Quietly, Please
Table manners are not only for the royalties. The sound of your mouth smacking or chewing is an assault on people’s ears. A little effort goes a long way, after all. Trust me—people notice it.
Keep Your Voice Down
We’re not saying you should whisper the whole of your life; do you really need to yell into your phone inside a café? Public domains are not your open stage. Dial down the volume—it’s called indoor voice for a reason.
Hold the Door for Others
Not rocket science: if someone is behind you, hold the door. It’s not about gender roles; it’s just about being a decent human. Probably the fastest way to advertise your lack of manners is by letting the door slam on someone.
Dress for the Occasion
Casual is nice, but jeans for a wedding? That’s felony etiquette. Dress according to code: it’s not about fashion, it’s respect for the event and the one that is hosting it.
Don’t Overstay Your Welcome
Know when it’s time to go. Lingering too long after dinner or a party can make a good time into an awkward one. When the host starts yawning or cleaning up, then it’s time for one’s cue to make his exit.
Give Up Your Seat
If you are on public transportation and see a senior citizen, pregnant woman, or anyone who looks like they may be struggling, stand up! It’s common decency, yet people nowadays act stuck to their seats.
Letting People Exit Before You Enter
Why is this rule so hard? Be it a train, elevator, or crowded doorway, let people leave before you bulldoze your way in. It’s not only good manners but also basic logic. You’re not racing for a prize here, so chill out and wait your turn – it’s faster, smoother, and way less chaotic for everyone involved.
Cleaning Up After Oneself Publicly
Leaving your trash in the park or your coffee cup on the table is a universal pet peeve. You are not royalty, and the world is not your chambermaid. Throw your trash in the bin, and clean up after yourself. It is a little consideration, but it shows you actually care about the shared spaces we all use.
Letting Others Speak Without Interrupting
Constantly cutting people off isn’t just a bad habit; it’s a straight-up conversation killer. Let people finish their thoughts before chiming in with yours. It’s not just about being polite; it’s about showing you value what they say. Spoiler: Nobody likes a conversation hog.
Standing to Greet Someone
There’s something timeless about standing up to greet someone—it shows respect, warmth, and confidence all at once. Whether you’re meeting a friend or shaking hands with your boss, standing makes the interaction feel important. Sitting there like a slouchy couch potato? Not so much.
Keeping Left or Right on Pavements
It shouldn’t be a game of human bumper cars whenever one walks down a busy sidewalk. Stick to one side – left or right, whichever the convention in your country says. The real villain arc here is people just wandering around or abruptly stopping right in the middle of a busy path—extra credits to anyone who doesn’t check their phone while walking.
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